4 questions women regularly ask me.

This is the just one of the many questions that was asked of me today by a few women who took the time to email me regarding my blog and my marathon dating style.  So, here goes....

1. First question: "Where do you meet the men you date and what type of man do you date?"
   Answer:  Firstly, I meet men any and everywhere I go.  I also speed date, I tend to read different news papers and check out what's happening in various neighborhoods.  Just because I'm a woman of color does not mean I can only attend soca/dancehall parties, hip hop/r'n'b type parties.  I like doing various things which take me out of my comfort zone, so I'm usually opened to doing a lot of things.  Here are a few sites for speed dating in Toronto, http://www.singleinthecity.ca/ http://www.25dates.com/ http://www.fastlife.ca
   The type of men I date are professionals, business owners, etc.  I am not into dating badboys, unemployed men etc.  I work hard for what I have so it's important for me to meet someone on my level, true I'm not going to marry the individual, but, you never know.
2. Second question:  "Why do you date as you do?"
   Answer:  I date as I do because after dating someone for almost 6 years and it ended with nothing to show for it and after being alone for 2 years, I decided to just get myself back out there into the social swim of things, however, it was going to be my way or no way at all.  I enjoy dating different men and getting to know people.  It's not always as sexual as most people may think.  There are some genuinely great men out there, one may take only the time to look.
3. Third question:  "Are you sexual on the first date?"
   If I am going on a one-night stand date, well yes, however, I have stopped doing that.  I have a 5 date minimum before I sleep with someone, however, there are those times when I have met someone and the attraction has been impossible to not get some on the first date :)
4. Fourth question:  "Do you remain friends with these men and would you date them again?"
   Some men are still in my phone book and we call and go out frequently.  Naturally, there are those douchebags who are just not worth it after date one.
   
   Well that's it for the questions for today :)  But, check out some of those sites and google some stuff, you'll be amazed as to who you can meet in the line at the supermarket, movie theater, hospital, mall, take tour of a country club, golf course and step out of your comfort zone, dress well, have a great attitude, be positive, carry yourself like a queen and exude all the confidence in the world even if you are shaking in your heels or whatever it is you're wearing :)  Be bold, be brave and may the 'force be with you!!'