Where is the best place to meet a man?

I know I've addressed this before, but I received an email asking me where I meet men etc.  Hell if I know the best place to meet a man!  I meet men EVERYWHERE I go.  They are not hard to miss.  Supermarkets, gas stations, malls, churches, bars/clubs, salons, zoo, airports, train stations, jail.  Many women are turning to dating sites www.eharmony.ca www.eharmony.com www.match.com www.plentyoffish.com and the list goes on and on and on. The thing with some women is that, we are overly picky and overly anal at times, and we make up little scenarios in our head about the "how I met your father" story in our heads to the point that if we don't meet this dream man in front of Tiffany's on our way to Paris on a private jet, then he can't possibly be good, and blah blah blah.

I learned that you have to make yourself available, and I don't mean that in a sexual way, open to going outside your box to meet someone then it's a good thing.  It's one thing for a man to find you attractive, but once they find you "only available" it's no compliment.  Be observant as to who is around you, watch, don't stalk the man in the frozen food aisle of the supermarket, but, don't be afraid to strike up a convo.  Watch out for wedding rings, though they do come off, but if you wanna take it there, ask him straight out, "married or not?"  If not, move onto the next phase. Be brave. Be bold.

Don't judge a book by it's cover!

So I'm back on the dating horse, so-to-speak, and I met this gentleman who literally made me squirm, well at first sight, lol, which is never a good thing, BUT, the little angel on my shoulder said to me, "don't be a jerk, you committed to the date, so go through with it, don't base on what you see alone."  So, after I rolled my eyes and gave myself a quick pep talk, I put on my fake smile and went forth like a soldier off to battle.

The saying, "never judge a book by it's cover is so very true."  He may have hurt my eyes at first, but during the great conversations, the laughter, and constant "omg i can't believe it, he's hilarious memos to myself" I have to admit I had a great time with this man.

Will I see him again?  I don't know. Am I suffering from a "Shallow Hal" complex?  Perhaps. But, should I be blamed because I need to be physically attracted to a man?  Hell no I should not be blamed!  If I were a man who was on a date with such a woman, I probably would have still had sex with her and never call her again.  But, I'm no man.

January 25, 2010, this must be some kind of record

6 degrees in the city and rain? Lol
Gotta love it!

Cut those out of your life who bring nothing good to it!

This is what I have done for the year 2010.

Any so-called "friends" who have wronged me and or who just do not contribute any positiveness, and or are NOT supportive in whatever way, I have literally cut them off!  And it's a good thing I did that too.  I do not need any bad trash from 2009 all up in my 2010!

Women are very dangerous

Extremely, highly, dangerous!

We are to be feared!!