Thoughts of Strange things running through the playground that is my mind.

Conversating with Mr. Dr today and he kept speaking about, "OUR future." And "OUR vacation." And "OUR" this, and that.  Hmmm, lately it seems that all conversations begin with, "Baby, are WE going to make this OUR this, that, or whatever?" or my personal favourite, "hun, I was thinking about this color for OUR mastersuite!"  Never wanting to be "one of those women," I broach the subject very carefully. 

And how did I do that?  "I told him I had to go shopping and left."  Don't get me wrong, he's a great man, and we have an amazing time together, but we have not been going out that long, as far as I'm concerned for us to be speaking about moving in together and or marriage.

I'll wait to see what happens....*tapping fingers, looking at left hand....IMAGINE!*

Girl talk.

I was speaking to my cousin earlier and I was absolutely overwhelmed at all the emotions of the fact that HE may spend the rest of his life alone.  That's right, HE. My MALE cousin, who is 32, has shared with me his fear of being alone.  And you thought it's only us women who fear this and who express this to our friends, families and or shrinks.  Never be fooled ladies, SOME men are sensitive creatures who feel just as much as we do.

Shocked did not begin to describe what I felt, not to mention, total confusion and disgust all at once.  On one hand I felt honored that he respected me and thought of me to share this with, on the other hand, I felt disgust, how dare he do this?  Doesn't he know that 'WE' have been coined, "the fairer sex" and it is US who have the authority to feel all this stuff!?  He's successful, independent, and is well on his way to retiring before he's 40, I kid you not.  IF he's having problems meeting a wonderful woman to share his life with, how in the hell is a normal woman or man to get anyone? lol.

Oh well, long story short, ladies, it is not just us.