Monday, January 25, 2010

Where is the best place to meet a man?

I know I've addressed this before, but I received an email asking me where I meet men etc.  Hell if I know the best place to meet a man!  I meet men EVERYWHERE I go.  They are not hard to miss.  Supermarkets, gas stations, malls, churches, bars/clubs, salons, zoo, airports, train stations, jail.  Many women are turning to dating sites www.eharmony.ca www.eharmony.com www.match.com www.plentyoffish.com and the list goes on and on and on. The thing with some women is that, we are overly picky and overly anal at times, and we make up little scenarios in our head about the "how I met your father" story in our heads to the point that if we don't meet this dream man in front of Tiffany's on our way to Paris on a private jet, then he can't possibly be good, and blah blah blah.

I learned that you have to make yourself available, and I don't mean that in a sexual way, open to going outside your box to meet someone then it's a good thing.  It's one thing for a man to find you attractive, but once they find you "only available" it's no compliment.  Be observant as to who is around you, watch, don't stalk the man in the frozen food aisle of the supermarket, but, don't be afraid to strike up a convo.  Watch out for wedding rings, though they do come off, but if you wanna take it there, ask him straight out, "married or not?"  If not, move onto the next phase. Be brave. Be bold.

1 comment:

  1. I'm a guy and a good place to meet many of us would be at a sporting event.

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