"If you like me in this position, you can watch me on your video phone!" Lol

What's Keeping All the Single Black Ladies from Putting a Ring on It?

What's Keeping All the Single Black Ladies from Putting a Ring on It?

He's just not that into YOU!

Ladies if your man says he loves you then he:

1. Lies to you
2. Cheats on you
3. Abuses you
4. Steals from you
5. Marries someone else
6. Wants to you be someone other than yourself
   
   Let me just be not the first to tell you, "he's just NOT that into you."  Matter-of-fact, he does not even like you.  So STOP the cowbawling and stop boring your friends with the same ongoing story about "how in the beginning he was great and ish ok!"

He does not like you.  He's just using you.  He hates who you are, hell,he does not even like himself.  So, forget about his sorry ass and move on!!

P.s. I recommend the movie, wickedly hilarious!

Do black men feel threatened

, when they see a black woman with a man of another race?

I asked myself this question after I was approached by a rather "aggressive manchild" today.  I have dated men of various races, religions etc, I probably dated about 2 black men throughout my life and while I cannot say that I will never date another black man, at the moment, men of other races are the ones who I meet and have a good time with. 

Do you agree with this statement?

"Women date men they feel superior to as a way NOT to get hurt?"

3 Days in and already,

FOOLISHNESS!
I woke up today, feeling super fine and wonderful, then I looked at my phone and WHOA, the "ex" sent me some foolish texts and one ridiculous voicemail, of course, were I the same person from 2009, lol, I would have already responded, but, since I am not that woman, lol, I will IGNORE!

Some foolishness about "he's wondering if we can get back together."

LOL, have you ever heard some utter madness?  Of course you have.  I have already forgiven, I'm not ready for full on dementia!

It's Complicated

Those 2 words say a lot don't they?
Facebook has it an an option to describe your relationship etc. Many have gotten into trouble when they've selected that option, lol

However, while I'm sure everyone has had some sort of complication in their relationship, I try to not have to use those words relationship wise.  Not that i've been complicated free, lol, of course not, I prefer not to have them however, we don't live in a perfect world now don't we :)?

Last night I watched the movie It's Complicated and my goodness it was hilarious! What these classic actors did in this movie had the theater literally rolling on the floor.  I fully recommend it to everyone.  There was not a foul word throughout the entire movie and that was a great thing.  You know at times you go to a movie and you cringe because every other word is profanity, well, no such thing here.  It was amazing.  Alec Baldwin, is super!  His line after the first time they had sex since their divorce that made me bawl out in a fury of laughter as well as the entire theater was, "I like that you've stopped waxing, you've gone NATIVE!" OMG, people were dying with laughter.

The Boss and I

I've been getting to know my "boss" lol, now for a while now and hmmm, I do believe I'll stick around a little while longer to see just where it all goes.  Supposedly for the New Year, he's having this get together at his house and of course he's not invited, but rather TOLD me, that I MUST be there in no uncertain terms but I be a no-show and whatever.

I can officially say that he is no longer my boss since I've completed my contract for his company, and onto the next client, hmmm, I wonder if I'll meet another boss who wants to be my man lol.

Does anyone know if this is illegal?  But seriously, I'm going to give this a chance, "fingers crossed."

When parents remarry

I have never seen my parents ever getting back together, and nothing was more evident that it will never happen more so then when I watched my mom waltz down the isle to marry her beau of the past 2 years.  She looked like a school girl, all happy, excited and full of not a care in the world.

I remember when I was dating my now ex, and we were in our third year of "where the hell is this going" relationship and she sat me down and said, "You know T, if you're in a meaningful relationship and the man never brings up a future, marriage, kids, etc, within 6months or even a year, you better start making other arrangements to meet and greet other men," lol.  I didn't listen, I held out because, well, I'm one of those hopeful Helens, however, when she was dating this man and it came up on the 7month mark, I felt it was my duty to sit down with her and give her the same talk, lol.  To which she promptly stopped me and said, "I'm the mother, you do as I SAY!"  Well, I've never witnessed such bull in my life, however, lol, she' mom.

My new daddy, lol flew 6 of us to the island of St. Bart's and the other fam members whoever wanted to attend had to pay their own way, lol, which I loved.  Got rid of the riff raft one time, lol and the cheapos and the ones for whom everything is a "OH MY GOODNESS would you look at how much that costs."  Ugghhh.

What can one say about this place?  Other than it's magical, regal, quiet, beautiful, with overly beautiful people prancing on and off the island.  If you ever get the opportunity, I strongly suggest you take it and enjoy this beautiful place.  Watch out for the low flying prop planes though......

I would have liked to post more pics, however, once my stupid drunk ass uncle started singing and dancing and picked me up and tossed me into the pool with my phone and camera in hand, needless to say, I have NO FRIGGING PICS to show!!!

*Aunty K, if you're reading this will you kindly email me the pics please???*

Shopping homicide, murder

What does the holidays do to some individuals? I do not know nor do I want to know. Seemingly innocent people turn into wreckless lunatics when shopping. Listen, if you're going to be a total T-Rex while shopping KEEP YOUR ASS HOME and shop online!!!