Where is the best place to meet a man?

I know I've addressed this before, but I received an email asking me where I meet men etc.  Hell if I know the best place to meet a man!  I meet men EVERYWHERE I go.  They are not hard to miss.  Supermarkets, gas stations, malls, churches, bars/clubs, salons, zoo, airports, train stations, jail.  Many women are turning to dating sites www.eharmony.ca www.eharmony.com www.match.com www.plentyoffish.com and the list goes on and on and on. The thing with some women is that, we are overly picky and overly anal at times, and we make up little scenarios in our head about the "how I met your father" story in our heads to the point that if we don't meet this dream man in front of Tiffany's on our way to Paris on a private jet, then he can't possibly be good, and blah blah blah.

I learned that you have to make yourself available, and I don't mean that in a sexual way, open to going outside your box to meet someone then it's a good thing.  It's one thing for a man to find you attractive, but once they find you "only available" it's no compliment.  Be observant as to who is around you, watch, don't stalk the man in the frozen food aisle of the supermarket, but, don't be afraid to strike up a convo.  Watch out for wedding rings, though they do come off, but if you wanna take it there, ask him straight out, "married or not?"  If not, move onto the next phase. Be brave. Be bold.

Don't judge a book by it's cover!

So I'm back on the dating horse, so-to-speak, and I met this gentleman who literally made me squirm, well at first sight, lol, which is never a good thing, BUT, the little angel on my shoulder said to me, "don't be a jerk, you committed to the date, so go through with it, don't base on what you see alone."  So, after I rolled my eyes and gave myself a quick pep talk, I put on my fake smile and went forth like a soldier off to battle.

The saying, "never judge a book by it's cover is so very true."  He may have hurt my eyes at first, but during the great conversations, the laughter, and constant "omg i can't believe it, he's hilarious memos to myself" I have to admit I had a great time with this man.

Will I see him again?  I don't know. Am I suffering from a "Shallow Hal" complex?  Perhaps. But, should I be blamed because I need to be physically attracted to a man?  Hell no I should not be blamed!  If I were a man who was on a date with such a woman, I probably would have still had sex with her and never call her again.  But, I'm no man.

January 25, 2010, this must be some kind of record

6 degrees in the city and rain? Lol
Gotta love it!

Cut those out of your life who bring nothing good to it!

This is what I have done for the year 2010.

Any so-called "friends" who have wronged me and or who just do not contribute any positiveness, and or are NOT supportive in whatever way, I have literally cut them off!  And it's a good thing I did that too.  I do not need any bad trash from 2009 all up in my 2010!

Women are very dangerous

Extremely, highly, dangerous!

We are to be feared!!

So, I'm on TWiTTer and I click a link from another twitterer and I'm taken to PerezHiltons' twitpic, hmmm and what is bestowed upon thy eyes?

Yum yum candy guys all butch and hard with chiselled bodies and a hand not large enough to cover his delightfully sized dick'n'balls.  ALL SORTS of wicked thoughts have already danced through my head and trickled all the way down to my "Clarice".

Gay or straight, let us give thanks for these and p.s. whatever it is they are dressed for, I want to attend the next one :)

THE MOST CONCEITED MAN EVER, THOU HE'S FOINE!!

Lol, yesterday I met this man at the gym.  After looking at him look at himself for about 17 mins *yes I know 17 mins because I distinctively remember looking at my clock at 8:00 then when I looked again it was 8:17*, well, he was very, VERY handsome, excellent features, and after our convo I got to know that he's part Cherokee, white, Japanese and black (WHAT A COMBINATION).

So, he's spotting me during my workout etc and viceversa.  As I head off to my aerobics class he says, "you know I'm a very good looking man, you're a beautiful woman, it will be a shame if YOU DID NOT GET TO EXPERIENCE ALL THIS!!"


Now, me being the person I am, I literally paused in my tracks and literally LOL, turned around and said to him, "you know it's funny that you think that, because I thought that when I saw you, however, you should know, if we do get together it just for the hell of it and it will be material for an online blog where my gf's and some gay men bash men such as yourself, and I WILL blog about you picture and all under the most CONCEITED S.O.B. EVER!"

He said, "Have a nice day, thanks for spotting me." And walked off.

Now, is it me or was he a wee-bit conceited?  It's ok to know you are attractive etc, but dayum, turn down the madness please!  "He was oh so, O.M.G. FIONE does not even begin to cut it with him.  Out of this world, what God did to create him.  At times when I see such a drop dead gorgeous man, that is when I'm convinced that God is indeed a Woman! :)"

Let us pray

I don't get political and or religious on my blog, however, in spite of all that's happening in Haiti.  All the efforts and help etc, I just want to take this time to lift up Haiti and pray for a spiritual cleansing.

My facebook status! Yes, it's true.

Seriously, you men who cry like little women really, REALLY annoy me. Would you check to see if you still have 2 testicles please and if their not there, go get a pair!! Grrrr

Paul Bettany is the logical choice for this role isn't he?

Plot


After God loses faith in humanity, the archangel Michael (Paul Bettany), who has become a fallen angel, is the only one standing between mankind and Armageddon. This time using angels to execute the Last Judgment, God's wrath descends on Earth to exterminate the world's population. In a desperate, last-chance gambit, Michael leads a group of strangers to a small New Mexico diner to protect a young waitress who may be pregnant with Christ in his second coming.

The Source